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Pros and Cons of Running a Small Business with Your Spouse

May 29, 2012 By Melinda Emerson 4 Comments

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What can be better than having your most trusted ally working with you while you are trying to navigate the challenging route to small business ownership? You can rely on him / her to face whatever challenge comes along the way. Your spouse also understands your strengths and weaknesses better than anyone else and can complement you for any missing links. All the while he / she is by your side all day and night.

As romantic as it sounds, having the company of your spouse 24×7 can be a double-edged sword. History supports both sides of the argument. For every successful business built by a husband and wife team, there are probably five others that have not worked out well. Not only have the partners lost their business, but they have lost their marriage too.  Running a business with your life partner sounds easier than it is.

That is why it is important to have a clear understanding of what is involved when running a business with your spouse (or any close relative, for that matter). Before you jump into it you have to carefully examine the challenges you will face and devise a plan to address them. Just like you had spent time before getting into the nuptial agreement, you need to weigh the pros and cons of this business arrangement. Here is my view of the pros and cons of having your spouse as business partner.

Pros

  • Trusted Partner — As we already mentioned your spouse is the most trusted partner you can have when running a business. You can discuss anything and everything with him without having to worry about divulging business secrets or getting bad advice.
  • Common Goal — Both partners in the business will have the common goal of making the business successful. After all, it is going to benefit them equally in personal lives too. This will ensure that both the partners will stand together while going through challenging times.
  • Good Understanding — As life partners, both husband and wife have developed a pretty good understanding of each other’s strengths and weaknesses. This will come in handy when you have to take care of the business since you can back each other up, especially in the areas where one of you is not strong enough.
  • Easier Scheduling — Since both the partners are together, it becomes somewhat easier to manage personal lives. Think about having to attend personal commitment during business hours. You don’t need to ask for permission from the boss.

Cons

  • High Risk — By running the business together you are putting all financial eggs in one basket. If the business does not work out as expected, you stand to lose it all. You cannot fall back on the safety of having one partner continuing with the income.
  • No Separation between Home and Work — Can you imagine the conversation you will have at a dinner table? Most likely, it will revolve around business if you do not attempt to block it deliberately. Not only will you bring your business issues home, but your business can be affected by personal issues raised at home. There is no place to go away from your spouse to cool down!
  • Employee Awkwardness — Many time employees may feel awkward when having both spouses around. Whose side do they take when having to make a decision? Will they feel comfortable around you when you are discussing your personal lives?
  • Difficult Decisions — Having both partners in the business can prevent you from making difficult decisions. You simply cannot “fire” your spouse if business conditions warrant taking such action. If you cannot move fast enough in making decision because of the nature of relationship it may hurt your business.

As can be seen, having your spouse as a business partner can work both ways. The best advice we can give is make sure you understand both sides and, more importantly, lay down ground rules of how you will operate the business.

About the Author: Harry Vaishnav is a small business expert. He maintains a blog at SmallBizViewPoints where he provides insights, information and guidance to small business and franchise owners and prospective buyers. He also provides consulting services to small businesses at Angel Business Advisors.

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Filed Under: Guest Articles, Melinda Emerson @SmallBizLady, Starting A Small Business, Your Small Business Tagged With: couples in business, Harry Vaishnav, small business info, working with spouse

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Melinda F. Emerson, “SmallBizLady” is America’s #1 Small Business Expert. She is an internationally renowned keynote speaker on small business development, social selling, and online marketing strategy. As CEO of Quintessence Group, her Philadelphia-based marketing consulting firm serves Fortune 500 brands that target the small business market. Clients include Amazon, Adobe, Verizon, VISA, Google, FedEx, Chase, American Express, The Hartford, and Pitney Bowes. She also has an online school, www.smallbizladyuniversity.com, that teaches people online marketing and how to start and grow a successful small business and publishes a blog SucceedAsYourOwnBoss.com. Her advice is widely read, reaching more than 3 million entrepreneurs each week online. She hosts The Smallbizchat Podcast and is the bestselling author of Become Your Own Boss in 12 Months, Revised and Expanded, and Fix Your Business, a 90 Day Plan to Get Back Your Life and Reduce Chaos in Your Business.

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  1. Louise Loxton says

    May 29, 2012 at 9:21 am

    I totally agree with the point you make about clear ground rules and common goals. Clarity is key. A clear division of duties,which cater to the strengths of the respective marriage partner is essential, as well as a clear purpose. I run a business with my spouse and we have regular weekly meetings (not at home!) to ensure we are both up to date on what we are working on. I also recommend reviewing the long and short-term goals of your business at regular intervals in a formal setting and not relying on after-dinner conversation or a chat at breakfast to communicate where your venture is heading. It is very tempting to take advantage of the close proximity to your partner to talk about your business, but my experience has shown it is more effective to draw a clear line here and schedule your business time instead.

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  2. Gail Roddy says

    May 29, 2012 at 9:39 am

    I would add that the couple MUST know and work to their strengths. If one is a less astute financial manager, the less astute spouse must defer to the more astute financial manager. If one is a better “rain maker,” let that spouse shine in that capacity. Stay out of one another’s strength.

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  3. Kevin Stice says

    May 31, 2012 at 10:58 am

    I agree with clarity being important. Work must stay at work and home stay at home. It can be a tough line to walk sometimes.

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  4. Sean O'Byrne says

    June 5, 2012 at 12:02 am

    It’s a double edged sword. You get to purse your career and business goals with the one person you love the most, at the same time your sphere of independence is reduced. It’s having the support, comfort and understanding when you want it, but then you it’s much harder to get away from it when you need personal space.

    I found if you have shared goals, it makes sense to share your career goals too. It can be very fulfilling.

    Tip: Make time for yourself…i.e. go to a cafe down the road the write the email there. And try not to bring your laptop to bed. 😉

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