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November 16, 2009 By Melinda Emerson 8 Comments

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cover_becomeboss_11-16-09The following is an excerpt from my forthcoming book: Become Your Own Boss in 12 months; A Month-by-Month Guide to a Business that Works! Scheduled to be released by Adams Media in February 2010.

In small business, your network is key is to your business success, but it is astonishing to me why people with no friends will start a business. I believe it’s best to plan 12 months before you quit your job to start a business.  In that year, one the most important things you need to do is build and reinforce your personal network. Why? Because, people do business with people they like and people they know. Hopefully, you can be both to your clients. There are many businesses like yours, but one thing that separates your company from others is who you know and how you know them.

An entrepreneur’s most valuable skill is the ability to make friends and influence people.

Look for Ways to Meet People Encounters with people you don’t know are important. Look at it this way: You don’t meet strangers; you meet friends you just don’t know yet. There are a few rules to this kind of networking. Always invite the person to talk about themselves first. After all, the more you know about them, the better you can tailor your thirty-second pitch. Be ready with your short commercial about your business. Consider this your opportunity to make a first impression.

The 30 Second Commercial Before you hit the street extolling the virtues of your great product or service, it is crucial that you have a clear thirty-second commercial (also known as “the elevator pitch”) for your business. When someone asks you what you do, you need to have a crisp and memorable response that makes it clear what business you are in and how you solve problems for your customers. Your commercial is intended for very brief, chance encounters. It is important because it helps you make a lasting first impression. You use it to showcase your professionalism, the benefits you provide, and your expertise. The goal is to capture your target’s attention and interest so that you can engage them in a more substantial and meaningful way. A strong thirty-second commercial will help you create better networking connections, and it can draw people to you. People will seek you out if you present yourself and your business professionally.

It is very important that you sound excited about what you do when you talk to people. You are always selling the business and yourself. Be careful never to tie up someone more than few minutes unless the contact seems to want to prolong the conversation.

Trains, planes, and buses are a great way to meet other business people. I only take the Amtrak Acela express train, which is how most business travelers in the Northeast ride. When I ride the train, I look for an open seat next to someone who looks like a businessperson. You just never know who could be a high-ranking executive, so I keep my mind and my options open. I try to make a friend or at least to learn something from someone during the ride. Most of the time, I accomplish both goals.

A Friendly Conversation Can Always Turn into a Potential Business Lead Learn how to strike up a conversation with anyone. Giving a compliment is a great way to start.  Look for something you have in common such as kids, sports, tired of being in line—anything you can thing of to make a personal connection with the person you are talking with. Whenever you attend networking functions or, for that matter, go anywhere, you should always have business cards. When it comes to networking, you never know where you might meet someone who can help you grow your business, so it pays to always be prepared with plenty of business cards. It’s like that old saying goes “never leave home without them.”

Build Personal Network When I first moved to Philadelphia, I put my nose to the grindstone for a few years to build up my career, then I turned my attention to meeting people. I did three things. First, I joined the Urban League to do volunteer work, socialize, and participate in professional development activities. Then I found a church home. The third thing I did was to reach out to the alumni association of my alma mater, Virginia Tech. These three associations paid off in spades years later when I started my business. My first customers came from those associations.

The Cocktail Hour Before Any Event is the Event! Be early for the reception so you can circulate. Once you sit down to dinner, the only people you can network with are the other nine people at your table. An accountant once told me that the rule of thumb is that you should go through 500 business cards roughly every two months when you first start a business. I even carry business cards to the hair salon because you never know who’s in the shampoo bowl next to you.

The Follow-Up The way to build relationships is through continued contact. It is essential to follow up within two weeks after meeting with a potential business contact. You can do this in multiple ways. The quickest and easiest way is e-mail. I prefer to send a handwritten note on my company stationery, since I feel this adds a personal touch. You can have note card stationary printed with your company logo on it.

Leave me a comment if you have any other good networking tips or stories to share.

Melinda Emerson “SmallBizLady”is a Veteran Entrepreneur, Small Business Expert and Social Media Coach who hosts #smallbizchat on Twitter. #Smallbizchat is the trusted resource on Twitter to discuss everything entrepreneurs need to know about launching and running a profitable small business. Melinda’s first book, Become Your Own Boss in 12 month! A Month-by-Month Guide to a Business that Works! will be released by Adams Media in Feb 2010.

For more tips on how to start or grow your small business visit http://succeedasyourowboss.com and subscribe to Melinda Emerson’s blog.

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Melinda F. Emerson, “SmallBizLady” is America’s #1 Small Business Expert. She is an internationally renowned keynote speaker on small business development, social selling, and online marketing strategy. As CEO of Quintessence Group, her Philadelphia-based marketing consulting firm serves Fortune 500 brands that target the small business market. Clients include Amazon, Adobe, Verizon, VISA, Google, FedEx, Chase, American Express, The Hartford, and Pitney Bowes. She also has an online school, www.smallbizladyuniversity.com, that teaches people online marketing and how to start and grow a successful small business and publishes a blog SucceedAsYourOwnBoss.com. Her advice is widely read, reaching more than 3 million entrepreneurs each week online. She hosts The Smallbizchat Podcast and is the bestselling author of Become Your Own Boss in 12 Months, Revised and Expanded, and Fix Your Business, a 90 Day Plan to Get Back Your Life and Reduce Chaos in Your Business.

Comments

  1. Rod Kirby says

    November 18, 2009 at 9:55 am

    Great tips, Melinda. One other thing I would add is to make sure you stand out from the crowd at networking events. Instead of wearing the standard name tags or badges given, put your business card into the badge holder instead. Or, wear solid colors like all black to stand out.

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    • admin says

      November 19, 2009 at 1:08 pm

      Standing out from the crowd is really important. Using your own name tag is a great way to do it. Thanks for leaving a comment.

      To your success.

      Melinda
      @smallbizlady

      Reply
  2. Barbara Lopez says

    November 18, 2009 at 12:17 pm

    Melinda, these are fantastic tips and so incredibly important. – I especially love how you gave personal examples of how you do these things yourself.

    As The Elevator Pitch Coach, I also advise my clients to include either all, or at the very least the strongest points of their elevator pitch on the back of their business card. This is extremely helpful as you’re out there passing out 500 cards every two months – you’re sending them away with EXACTLY what you do – and you have a better chance of them remembering you if they read a similar message when they come across your card on their desk down the road.

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    • admin says

      November 19, 2009 at 1:07 pm

      Barbara–

      Thank you for your comment. Your elevator pitch information is really key to making a lasting impression. We must get you on #smallbizchat in 2010.

      Continued success.

      Melinda
      @smallbizlady

      Reply
  3. Sherri Garrity - Chief Corporate Fugitive says

    November 18, 2009 at 1:49 pm

    Networking is so important, but strategic networking is critical. There is so much you can do before and after you attend events and association meetings to make the most of it if you are prepared. Most people never follow up, so make sure that you do and you will stand out (incidentally I have twelve tips to share if you are interested in the specifics – go to http://www.corporatefugitive.com/site/twelve-ways-to-get-more-from-events )

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    • admin says

      November 19, 2009 at 1:05 pm

      Sherri–

      Thank you so much for your comment. Networking plan before the event is critical and your follow-up plan is how you close the business. You are right on target.

      Continued success.

      Melinda
      @smallbizlady

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  4. Lee Drozak says

    November 19, 2009 at 2:34 pm

    Melinda,

    Great tips about networking. I also love that you mention the follow-up since that is critical in building relationships with those that you meet. Also, I always arrive at an event early to meet other early birds and get my thoughts organized so I am on point and attentive.

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